 |
| http://raisingsunny.blogspot.com/2010/07/abcs-of-feelings-h.html |
"We are what we do".People assess your personality through your actions. You return a lost wallet; you are an honest person; you help people as much as you can (sometimes even too much); you are perceived as kind and compassionate. It is a good thing that people see you that way. However; the problem is that people will ONLY see you that way. Somebody who is nice; kind and who never says no. That is exactly when people take advantage of you.
Well I'm sorry; "Mr Nice" has left the building (for now). I'm not saying that you should become mean; but you should show people that you can actually say no; you need to show this side of you in order for them to understand that there is a limit. You come to this conclusion when people continuously "take you for granted". You wish you did not have to act that way but unfortunately; it is a must. People ned to understand that you can't always be "Mr Nice".
 |
| http://annyjacoby.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/verbal-self-defense-against-rape-sexual-assault/ |
Through the different situations in our lives; it is important to know when to " ask Mr Nice to go for a walk". However; he must not be too long as you don't want to become "Mr Bitter".
No comments:
Post a Comment