Feelings follow behaviour...

At first I did not understand that sentence…I have to feel something first in order to act. Let’s take the example of somebody who is getting burnt. You feel it first then according to that you react in the appropriate manner which is getting that hot thing away from you. Okay this is a physical example. When it comes to the matter of the heart; it is completely different. For me it was pretty much the same thing but I learnt that this sentence can be true.  After behaving a certain way; feelings may be created either from one of both sides of the relationships. Let me take the example of two people always spending time together; they start getting close and behave in a certain way. Because of this behaviour; particular feelings may be created and the two people who did not see anything coming find themselves struck by love.

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What do you then? The best answer could be that you go for it. If things were that simple…Sometimes; people can be together after acting that way or they can decide not to do anything for reasons that are beyond our understanding. In this type of situation, it is always better to follow your heart and weigh the pros and the cons in order to take the proper decision.

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